Asking for what you want.
This does not seem to be a problem for many but I had a big problem just even asking. I think this came from my childhood because we weren't allowed to ask for too much because my parents always told me there was only so much money to go around. So when a girlfriend of mine told me to " just ask" it took a while to sink in. She continued with the statement saying " if you don't ask you will never know , they might say YES! This was a revelation for me. When it sank in it made